Things seem to keep getting worse and worse for poor Tiger Woods.
As I discussed in the "Tiger & the Truth - 3 Lessons," good leaders know that the quickest resolution to a crisis is "the Truth in an expediant manner."
Tiger neither came forward quickly (some would argue that he has yet to come forward), nor has the truth been revealed.
What I want to discuss today is...the Truth doesn't change. Good leaders know that when stories change, it is not the Truth.
And the bottom line is... Tiger is losing the Truth war.
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Tiger has yet to come forward with any version of the truth. His tactic at this point has been to hide and hope this all goes away.
Unfortunately, for him, it will not go away. Nor will the media.
So, he will have to re-emerge at some point. And by delaying it, his is only making things infinitely worse.
By waiting, he is letting the public believe:
- That he is dishonest
- That the truth has yet to come out
- That things are probably much worse than has been revealed
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The bottom line is... The Truth Doesn't Change.
And when it does... it is a lie. The details surrounding Tiger have changed so much that everyone knows that the Truth is not out there.
A Navy Story...
When I was an officer in the Navy, one of my sailors did not show up for work one day.
He was eventually tracked down, he was at the hospital with a broken arm. The immediate story was that he had fallen down a set of stairs.
When he got to work, he had scratches on his face and hands. It was pretty obvious that his injuries did not appear to be from a fall.
When asked about the details, it did not take long before the story took a major turn. He did not fall down the stairs...
Actually, a motorcycle fell on him.
"Excuse me? It fell on you?"
"Well... My friend was showing me his new motorcycle and it fell over on me."
"Where was this?"
"Well, actually, we were at Tommy's friend's house."
"Why?"
"Well, it was a party."
"When?"
"Well, it was around midnight... and um, we had been drinking all night."
"And what happened then?"
"Well, I was sitting on the bike. And I was showing off by revving it, and I accidentily put it in gear and it took off."
"And?"
"Well, I lost control of the bike and ran into a brick wall. The bike was pretty damaged."
So which version of this story did you believe?
- Fell down the stairs
- Looking at motorcycle and it fell on him
- He and friends were drunk and he ran his friend's new bike into a brick wall
3 things Good Leaders know about the Truth
- When little details change... you are not getting the truth. Especially listen for small changes in initial versions of a story.
- If it sounds too improbable...it probably is.
- The shortest version of any story is the truth. Tall tales are long tales. The longer and more detail that is added probably means you are not getting the straight scoop.
What are you best examples of Truth stories? Please share...